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M. Raquel S. Soteldo

The Experience of a Person Who Is Going Through Psychological Abuse in an Intimate Relationship


Staying in a psychologically abusive relationship can have serious and long-lasting repercussions on a person's mental health and well-being. Here are some common impacts on the mind of individuals who stay in psychologically abusive relationships:



1. Low Self-Esteem: Psychological abuse often involves tactics that undermine a person's self-worth, leading to feelings of inadequacy, worthlessness, and self-doubt. Over time, the victim may internalize the negative messages and develop low self-esteem.



2. Anxiety and Fear: Living in a constant state of fear, walking on eggshells, and anticipating the next outburst or criticism can lead to heightened anxiety levels. The fear of repercussions from the abuser can be overwhelming and impact daily functioning.



3. Depression: Psychological abuse can cause profound feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and despair, leading to clinical depression. The persistent emotional manipulation and belittling from the abuser can contribute to a sense of powerlessness and helplessness.



4. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Individuals in psychologically abusive relationships may develop symptoms of PTSD, such as intrusive memories, flashbacks, hypervigilance, and emotional numbing, as a result of the trauma they have experienced.



5. Cognitive Distortions: Victims of psychological abuse may develop distorted thinking patterns and beliefs, such as self-blame, minimization of the abuse, and beliefs that they deserve mistreatment. These cognitive distortions can further perpetuate the cycle of abuse.



6. Isolation and Alienation: Abusers often isolate their victims from friends, family, and support systems, creating a sense of alienation and social withdrawal. The victim may feel isolated and alone, further exacerbating feelings of helplessness and dependence on the abuser.



7. Difficulty Trusting Others: Being in a psychologically abusive relationship can erode trust in oneself and others. Victims may struggle to trust their own judgment, question their perceptions, and find it challenging to trust new relationships in the future.



8. Emotional Numbness: Prolonged exposure to psychological abuse can lead to emotional numbness as a coping mechanism to protect oneself from the pain and trauma. The victim may disconnect from their emotions as a way to survive the abuse.



9. Physical Symptoms: The persistent stress and emotional distress from psychological abuse can manifest in physical symptoms, such as headaches, gastrointestinal issues, insomnia, and other stress-related health problems.



10. Suicidal Thoughts: In severe cases, individuals in psychologically abusive relationships may experience suicidal ideation as a result of feeling trapped, hopeless, and unable to escape the abuse. It is crucial for individuals experiencing suicidal thoughts to seek immediate help and support.



It's important to recognize the signs of psychological abuse and seek help if you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship. Support from a therapist, counselor, or helpline can provide guidance, validation, and assistance in navigating the challenges of leaving an abusive situation and healing from the emotional trauma.

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